
Caring Coaching/Mentoring
Once upon a time, there was a kindly man, wanting to buy a chainsaw for his farm, he spent months thinking about it, he knew he wants the chainsaw for his farm, but then the farm did not need a chainsaw however, when he finally made a decision, he bought it. For weeks and months, this kindly man walks miles away wandering into the forest, with the chainsaw in his hand.
The kindly man knew that he wanted something, but could not define what it is, and why he wanted something. This kindly man, wanders around the forest for ages, not knowing why he is there, or which tree he shall cut. A genie appears, and told him that his wishes are his command.
The kindly man looked up, and asked to help him make a decision, the genie looks back to him kindly, and says, when you decide which tree you want to cut, and why the universe will conspires to make it happen.
The kindly man walked away determined to find the ‘why’, over sudden, he realises he spent most of his time, focusing on what he did not want, and when he knew what he wanted from life, he did not have enough reasons as to why he wanted a new house, new partner, and he never had a clarity of purpose.
the winter is approaching, and thus when he found a mentor, his life begun to make sense, and starts living a life of blessedness.
Most of us, at one time or another get lost in our vision of the future, and all of us need a mentor, coach to mirror back to us the areas, the beliefs, and the perception that allude us to follow the road most travelled, which is the dark side of the tunnel. One of the most inspiring moments in our lives is recognizing the need for mentoring, and taking action toward it.
These are some things I am often asked. Feel free to contact me if your question is not answered here.
What is coaching/mentoring?
How does coaching/mentoring work?
How often should I be mentored and how long will I need coaching/mentoring?
What if I desire to cancel coaching/mentoring agreement?
What kind of people who use coaching/mentoring?
What are the areas of the coach/mentor expertise?
Any terms & condition imposed on the client?
What is coaching/mentoring?
Coaching is a process, which identifies barriers to success, health, and happiness, and encourages Moral self-autonomy.
Coaching is geared morally and ethically toward helping you achieve results, results that you can experience, see, feel, and measure.
Coaching has moved beyond the traditional therapies which dwells in the past,coaching is about the here and now, and how to plan for the future. Socrates says “the unexamined life is not worth living” this may be interpreted as I call it ‘ the unexamined belief has severe consequence’ thus it is the unplanned life which is not worth living. And to plan one’s life successfully, one must deprogram debilitating beliefs and re-program or reconstruct a belief that supports one’s desired outcome.
This gives rise to many invaluable question
What is belief ?How did it come about?
‘What is the consequence of a belief?
Can I create new beliefs?
Which one shall I hold firmly to support my dreams, projects, and my mission?
Which kind of beliefs I can insert in my conscious and unconscious mind to ensure success in all areas of my life?
What is happiness and how do we live it?
What is it we do not understand, and what needs to be understood?
Coaching provides you with a mentor who can challenge your belief systems to allow you to identify their strengths and areas that calls for improvement.
How does coaching/mentoring work?
Without your willingness and determination to seek renewal, a coach will not take you on, simply because some individuals are not yet ready for change, growth and success. Once you convince your mentor coach that you are ready, the process of creativity, resourcefulness and personal power begin to unleash from within you. The coaching work process aims to ask an intuitive question about set backs or crisis, and find empowering solutions, to be put into action, to help you regain personal power by taking action, and it is through specific kind of intelligent actions that leads to successful and intelligent results.
How often should I be mentored and how long will I need coaching/mentoring for?
You hold the power, you make that decision, and you go with the flow of the kind of results you feel you are achieving. Some leaders require a trainer or a coach for as long as they keep achieving results.
Think of a football coach, think of athlete coach, think of schoolteacher, or a counsellor. Each individual may require specific time scale, some choose to have a permanent coach, e.g: investors, leaders, celebrities, sport men and women, others need short term coaching, maybe once a week of a 12 weeks duration, or once a month session.
The good thing about having technology now, is that you can choose to remain anonymous, and be coached in the comfort of your own home, using emails, phone calls, or if you decide that face to face coaching is something you prefer. Your coach is always available via different medium of communication.
What if I desire to cancel coaching agreement?
You normally book a six session of one hour a week, and paid in advance, after six sessions agreement; you are free to cancel before or after the six sessions. The agreement helps individuals to commit rather than give up, but then they are free to discontinue the session if they so desire.
What kind of people who use coaching/mentoring?
In my experience, I have had clients of different status, and cultural and educational background, to name few such as celebrities, civil servants, Lords, MPs, teachers, investors, entrepreneurs, career movers, sports men/women, men and women preparing for their retirement (adjustment) to manual and office workers. Generally speaking, successful people manage their time effectively, thus any issue that may become a barrier to success, they engage a coach to resolve the challenge before it becomes a problem.
What are the areas of the coach/mentor expertise?
A coach/mentor deals with the psychological components that drive human behaviour to excel and succeed. Time management, relationships, fear, anxiety, stress, procrastination, lack of focus, nervousness, self confidence, poor performance, decrease in sale, conflict resolution, health issues, energy boosting, decision making, career change, self employment, finding joy and happiness, and having fun at work, or at home etc.
Any terms & condition imposed on the client?
Honesty and trust is my driving force, ethics and morals is my divine legacy. You pay for the time, and hours spent on research and coaching materials only. You are free to discontinue the coaching process at any time, with no penalties or any extra hidden fees. You will be refunded for any paid, but unused of your coaching/mentoring sessions.
Terms & Conditions
All fees are payable in advance, either by cash, cheque or direct to bank account. You can re-schedule time or cancel the appointment by giving 48 hours notice, otherwise the paid fees for that session is not refundable.
Honesty is highly appreciated, therefore any concerns or discomfort you may experience, please let the coach know about it
Feel free to contact a coach for a 10 minutes discussion between your scheduled sessions, should feel an urge to say something, that concerns your deeply or elates you higher. The line is open for you, for ten minutes, and it is free of charge.
It has been my experience that some clients have the tendency to derail from the main focus of the objectives, therefore, kindly, I ask you to permit the coach to interrupt and bring you back to the main focus.
You will fill the questionnaire about your health, and if there are any concerns about your health that indicates coaching/mentoring is not suitable for you, I may feel unable to take you on, and I will kindly let you know before you spend any money.
Coaching is about learning how to tackle certain situation, and how to use your own moral autonomy by taking action to resolve a conflict or find solutions to barriers of your success. Therefore, you are fully responsible for the results you desire to achieve or what you have achieved.
The results from Mentoring/coaching depend on your commitment. Mentoring/coaching show you the door of light, you must endeavour to walk through that door. The mentoring/coaching process is a philosophy rather than a psychological therapy.
I am a philosopher and not a psychiatrist. Coaching/mentoring is a caring spiritual process that takes you from darkness to light, if you comprehend the cause and effect, and then take action toward success. If you alleviate the cause of a problem or set back, you obliterate the effect permanently.
Privacy
As a moral agent, I recognise that the discussion between coach and client remains confidential at all times. However, if some illegal information was discussed, I will terminate the coaching contract.
SUBLIMINAL EMPOWERMENT
The inner dialogue If you desire to deprogram and reprogram your beliefs to help you breakthrough the barriers of success, then I feel that this program is the most compelling and effective result driven program.
"You eliminate self-doubt, cynicism, fear and completely delete debilitating beliefs self-talk and reprogram it with images and feelings of success."
"Your biological computer system becomes activated of its own quantum power employing expressions of manifestation, prosperity and abundance."
"You comprehend the law of action and reaction and comprehend a vision for your future”
"You feel at peace and in control of yourself, your impulses, your life and are diligent about thoroughly evaluating and qualifying EVERY desired opportunity that comes your way."
"You feel energizing energy with plenty of stamina, strength, humour and power to take action toward your desired outcome."
"You continuously focus on what you desire, improve and increase what you desire and ALWAYS give more in useful value than you charge." ·
SUPER CHARGE CONFIDENCE PROGRAMMING
You feel in great shape and stand tall in front of people who underestimated you, and can stand up to adversity.
You gain knowledge, concrete, precise and virtually invincible.
You increase your winning potentials, with your strategy toward victory.
You meet challenges with fun, self-assurance, and knowledge.
You present yourself impressively, have plenty of charm, seduction and your finances begin to double
You have a strong posture
You are very likable, have a great soul and you become extremely pleased with how your life is going.
You have many talents and take advantage of them all. You are diligent, richer, and noble in your deeds.
You have immense energy required to succeed.
You are a solution finder, and result driven.
You are successful in all areas, have no fear but only aspirations you follow through, and you will make others succeed
You contribute to society with total commitment and have invincible explosiveness and power. You grow AMAZINGLY CONFIDENT!TESTIMONIES This is AMAZING!!
I began using the Incantation, Andre calls it Script programming, I listened to Mp3 for 20 minutes a day and 20 minutes in bed before sleep. On Friday of that third week, I felt a sudden ‘change’ and obliterated my fear of public speaking, or speaking to ANYONE!!I found solutions to many of my problems, Andre call them ‘challenges’ I learnt to resolve ‘challenges’ while having great fun, laughing much and often.
That Friday, I had became WHAT SOME PSYCHOLOGISTS CALL, ' SUFFERING FROM EXCESSIVE HAPPINESS' well, I would rather suffer from that than suffer from ills. The transformation, for me, was a truly magical, I became FUN person IN ALL AREAS OF MY LIFE... ALL! I overcome my timidity, fears, inferiority complex, etc. This has helped me enormously both personally AND professionally! I'm A Believer Now!!" James from London
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Andre 07999 579 135
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